Sunday, February 21, 2010

Size Does Matter

We recently sold a vibrator to a woman, who was very, very keen to get it and try it out.  The vibrator she chose is one of our biggest sellers, and comes with a clit tickler.   It gyrates in a way a penis never could, and it is big.  Not huge, there are bigger, and not even intimidatingly large.  But it is big, and has quite a circumference, and is definitely larger than any penis I have seen.  I received an email from the woman, saying she couldn’t even get it inside her, and could I recommend something else.  I am still working on the request, within the guidelines that I was given, and believe me when I tell you that it is not easy.

I don’t expect that most people would have this problem, but it is worth thinking about.  Any vibrator must contain a motor, and the more it does, the more electronic wizardry it has to contain.  Therefore it gets bigger, and, often, wider.  Bigger isn’t always better, just have a look at Australia’s number one selling sex toy, the We Vibe 2.  It’s tiny, and it’s awesome.

Pulling a vibrator out of it’s box for the first time is a great feeling, the anticipation, the excitement, the frustration that you will have to wait hours until you can use it…  It is not a good feeling when you just look at it and think  “No WAY!”

First, do your research.  Have a look online and see if you can find the physical dimensions.  Pull out a ruler or tape measure, and translate those to reality.

The average depth of the vagina when aroused, is 5 to six inches, and obviously varies a bit from woman to woman. (You wouldn’t believe where I ended up when I googled that…)  Width varies from 1.5 to 2.5 inches, so there is obviously some variety in what will feel comfortable for you.

My advice if you have something on hand that you think may be too large for you?  Assuming that you are going to try anyway (well, I would!), is to take your time, don’t focus on the size, relax, use it outside a lot first, and have plenty of good quality lube on hand.  Oh, and don’t hurt yourself!  I have never had labial bruising, but it doesn’t sound comfortable!

Some of my favourite toys are penis shaped, but smaller than a penis.  They can be used in a variety of ways, and at angles that even a well used cock can’t achieve!

I heartily recommend a variety of shapes and sizes, so that they can be selected to suit your mood.

Variety is the spice of life after all.

Love,

Chiquita

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